Depending on your mindset and depending on how well you can take failing and how well you can handle difficult times these are factors that play a huge part in how well you can act in a difficult time and how well you come out at the other side. If you have a good mindset you will always come out of the situation a better person because you are open to learning and you don’t mind challenges. So, for example, you lose in the final of a football game you will feel terrible but with the right attitude you will be able to bounce back and look at it as a good experience to have so if or when you get there again you have more experience and you might have a better chance to win. If you fail you should take it on the chin and use it as motivation to do better and to work harder so that you don’t fail at the same point again.