Whenever I think of people who I enjoy being around, there are many traits that I believe these people have. Patience,
critical thought, self, and situational awareness, honesty, resilience, thoughtfulness, caution, and generosity. In some cases, I see a lot of these traits myself and can be a large part of why these are the traits that I think are good. On the other hand, whenever I think of people that I do not enjoy being around, a few more traits come to mind. Recklessness, apathy, dishonesty, stubbornness, laziness, and obnoxiousness. When I think about it, I also see some of these traits in myself. At times I can be apathetic if I am frustrated or am finding something or someone boring. If it is a person I dislike I tend to be stubborn. This can also be a probable reason as to why these are the things that I dislike in a person.
One of the traits that I do want to develop is self-awareness. Although I do think that I am pretty self-aware, it is still the trait that I want to develop the most because I believe it has the biggest benefit of being able to understand and capitalise on your strengths as well as to know and improve on your weaknesses before they have detrimental effects.
On the other hand, one of the traits that I want to avoid is being egocentric. I want to stay humble and understand that I have a lot to improve on, even where I believe that I am strongest in. I think that staying humble allows you to have a higher ceiling for success and potential because you understand that there are things that can be improved beyond how they are already.
This year, I would like to develop the trait of self-awareness. This is important to me because I am aware that there are a lot of things that I don’t know about myself and I am aware that those things can have negative effects on others. I believe that this will help me understand what I should continue to do and what I should work on to better portray myself to my peers. I think that this will help others find me more approachable and more developed as a person. I dislike people who don’t understand the consequences of their actions and are unwilling to change but I see this in myself because there are somethings that I do not quite understand yet, and I am unsure if the things I am doing only have an effect on a specific person or if it’s something that everyone is affected by. This bothers me because I am not sure if people are intimidated by me to the point where they don’t want to tell me the bad things about me, meaning that it is difficult for me to improve, but I think I can overcome this by asking others what think my weaknesses on or by thinking about why certain things have happened that could have been caused by me.