Belonging – Midway through Medea
How do we decide in our own lives who belongs and who doesn’t? How do cliques operate?
I think that deciding, in our own lives, who belongs and who doesn’t belong is entirely due to normalised societal views. Growing up in a society where there are normalised views, that are communal in a sense, we have subconscious viewpoints on who belongs, and who doesn’t belong in a particular group. For example, I know that many Singaporeans have the viewpoints that foreigners and expats, known locally as ‘Ang Mo’s’, don’t belong in Singapore – and as a result, some expats may experience first hand racism, in a sense, and may be treated differently because they don’t belong. This ultimately stems from the common societal viewpoint amongst Singaporeans, that AngMo’s don’t belong in Singapore, and therefore are treated slightly differently.
What potential violence is there in drawling lines between who belongs and who doesn’t?
Drawling lines between who belongs in groups and who doesn’t can create tension and potential conflict. Those classified into certain groups because they belong there (in the eyes of society) may not be satisfied with the group others see them belonging in. An example can be seen within the LGBTQ community, especially to do with the issue of gender. Some may perceive someone as belonging to the male gender because they, biologically, are male. But those who are being ‘placed’ into the group may think differently, and may very well feel like they belong to another group/category.
More broadly, who constitutes “we” especially when its so difficult to arrive at and locate a common voice, stance, or attitude on a given issue?
I think “we” constitutes the normalised viewpoint that society has. In all societies, there are viewpoints, or a way to look at things, which is normalised and deemed to be correct (or make the most sense). In Singapore, common voices may be easier to arrive at as generally, people have less freedom to speak their thoughts when compared to say, the United States, which emphasise on freedom of speech.
How does this relate to Home Fire or the poetry of Langston Hughes?
In Home Fire, Aneeka and Isma (who both identify as Muslims) are being judged as a result of their beliefs. Unfortunately, by being a muslims, the stereotypical view (which is sadly a norm in certain countries) is that muslims are terrorists, and that they ‘belong’ in the terrorist group, or can be classified as terrorists. A little irony here as we see Parvaiz ultimately become a terrorist and joining the ISIS terrorist group, yet we see first hand how being classified as a ‘terrorist’ by others can lead to distress for Aneeka and Isma themselves – having to navigate their way around dealing with these challenges.