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I have a lot of concerns in all three categories and not a lot of strengths. I don’t tend to have any good ideas that contribute to the group and I don’t communicate with other classmates outside of class, but I do respond to other people’s contributions so that’s something. I think that most of my strengths come from the fact that I tend to go follow the group more than trying to lead it and so I don’t spend time adding to the discussion of where we should go. In some ways, it’s a good thing because that means the group takes less time to get started. On the other hand, it’s a bad thing because then I don’t contribute my thoughts and don’t communicate with the group.

So for this semester or term, I decided to focus on setting and working towards a goal (Self-Management), contributing to discussions(Collaboration), and expressing ideas verbally (Communication). For Self-Management, I should start by realising what I want (in this case, it would be having digital discussions and verbal expression) and to set reminders whenever I need to have one on what I should do and when I should have it done by. For Collaboration, I should first contribute to discussions digitally, learn people’s emails and/or phone numbers so I can contact them outside of class, and set a reminder when I have a question. Communication goes hand-in-hand a little with Collaboration. To go express ideas out verbally, I should plan out what I want to say and how to say it beforehand and predict how the conversation will go to prepare my answers because most of the time I don’t say anything in discussions because I know that I wouldn’t have any answer to give them and I don’t want to seem stupid.

For skills like these, I hope to keep them for the rest of my life, but I hope to have them and be able to use them frequently by the end of this first semester.

Gender Identity

I believe that most of gender identity is determined by nature. You can not change who you are or what you feel no matter what. Our genes influence who we will become. For example, it was shown to us that the brains of trans-women are similar to cis-women instead of cis-men. But I also believe that the environment also influences our gender identity in a small way. If a trans-person was born in a conservative and traditional home, then he or she may not have found out that they are actually trans and might have lived their entire lives lying to themselves about who they are. It is like what we discussed in the first or second class of Global Perspectives. If an alcoholic is genetically programmed to be an alcoholic, then if he was never introduced to alcohol would he still be an alcoholic? If a trans-person is never aware of the option or fact that trans-people can exist and are valid, then the trans-person will never be able to understand that he or she is trans.

Gender is important to our identity because it shapes how we will behave. Of course, there are girls who will have interests in things that are mainly concentrated towards boys or vice versa, but gender is still important because it is a part of who we are. A puzzle is not complete if it has one piece missing from it. If we do not truly understand every part of ourselves, then we can not see the whole picture.