We have only recently begun to visit Apex Harmony Lodge, and every session is a new experience. We work with people suffering from Dementia and Alzheimer’s most of whom are quite elderly. Interacting with a different age group, especially through a medium that is as transient as music, has been challenging, yet beneficial. We were told before our sessions itself that “what you are a part of is so impactful. Yet, the duration of the impact is so short, unlike other services which you may have been a part of”. Indeed, this statement has held true. The fact that the individuals we work with have limited memories makes service more challenging. We must introduce ourselves each week, and sometimes the recollection we feel that certain songs bring them, is only spasmodic and may not be repeated.

Some students have been fortunate enough to have been assigned the same individual, who they spend time with, every Friday afternoon. However for me, it has been more challenging as I have worked with different people every session. For example, the lady I initially worked with, was quite uncomfortable with the aspect of wearing headphones, and as a result, did not wish to listen to the music. Another lady I worked with, appeared to be quite sick and the following week, was too weak to get out of bed for our session. Additionally, It is important to keep in mind, that the slowly diminishing memories of these individuals mean that they are often at a loss of words to express or introduce themselves. This often results in them feeling frustrated and this hinders their communication skills. Further more, many do not speak english and as a result, our conversations are often limited to smiling, and tapping in beat to the music we listen to.

Despite these challenges, I always look forward to these Friday sessions. The sheer joy that they express when they associate certain ideas or memories with certain songs, does not require any language for comprehension. It is so rewarding to see them move their hands and feet and sway in rhyme with the songs they love to hear. Further more, the gratitude that they show upon being given the opportunity to spend with us, is so heartwarming. However, it is also very upsetting, as many relate stories of how their families have abandoned them or sent them to the home. They appear to be happy at Apex Harmony Lodge, with others of similar age, yet it must also be so lonely. The fact that Dementia and Alzheimer’s has no cure so far, and usually only worsens makes me feel fortunate to be a part of making their lives a little better and brighter – no matter how short the duration is.

Local service is a living testimony to the fact that one should “be kind; everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about”.

(Photographs are not allowed at Apex Harmony Lodge to protect the privacy of their patients).

Learning outcomes highlighted:

• Undertaken new challenges.
• Planned and initiated activities.
• Worked collaboratively with others.
• Shown perseverance and commitment in their activities.