PSE reflection

Is porn good or bad?

From our learning today, I think that porn does provide some theoretical knowledge or at least provide an insight to sex, in order for people to understand the concepts of sex better. However, most of the times it is not realistic as it glamorise sex in order to create a pleasant impression to the audience. Therefore, porn can be having negative effects on people’s perspectives on sex as it is far off from reality. As long as people do no over rely on the false impressions of porn and do not have false expectations to sex, porn is still good. If porn has created unrealistic fantasies on the real sex life, that can be one of the negative effect it has on real life.

EQ

EQ refers to the emotional intelligence, which is the ability to perceive yours and others emotions. EQ determines your level of happiness and how well you adapt to an environment. It is an inevitable skill that can be improved through lifetime. IQ and EQ are both significant factors of how to success, however, I believe that EQ is more important than IQ ( and sometimes can even drive the IQ up ). EQ, as defined, is the ability to feel. When feeling others emotions, you are also critically thinking about how to react, which is relate to what IQ is — the ability to think. Thus, people have high EQ tend to have a high IQ too.

People with high EQ will have a nice personality that basically fits into 18 behaviours including hard to get offended, don’t seek perfection and stop negative self-talk in its tracks etc. People with high EQ are usually outgoing and is easy to get along with as they consider other’s feeling. They are also aware of their own emotions and can control their own emotions well.

What is identify

The waterline of visibility diagram contrasts between how others view an individual and how exactly an individual really is. Some of my thoughts on this diagram is that people’s appearance can be really different from their true identity. Identity involves some sort of choices, including what kind of person they want to be. People with common identities can be found through having conversation, further explorations of a person’s identity can be revealed after getting closer. It is not fair to judge a person by first impression or appearance, the identities above the waterline is just their traits and cultural backgrounds that they carry with them. However, the identities people see in themselves can be different from how others view them. Other people might view them from a different perspective, thus making them having a different identity.