Since my last post a lot has changed. I’ve started practicing
music therapy on a resident of Apex centre. I am working with Cheng
Tee, who speaks Chinese and English. This wonderful lady changed my
life for better. All our sessions should be based on listening to the
music. And as a part of dementia she doesn’t remember the name of the
songs, but she can speak fluently and understand everything that I am
asking about. She is very involved in the process and she always
smiles to everyone, she is a very helpful and active person, I am very
lucky to have her as my working-partner.
She loves Elvis Presley’s songs a lot and even remembers some of them.
While listening she is always clapping or stomping into rhythm, even
when she doesn’t feel well, she tries to be involved in it. It was a
breathtaking experiences, when I met her. As we learned from our
supervisor, many of people with dementia are not able to talk or show
their emotions, because they are mainly just don’t remember how to use
their muscles, so not all of them can be interactive. But Ms. Cheng
Tee is a very nice lady, who likes to talk and smile. Even when I’m
feeling a bit down, or I’m tired she starts clapping into rhythm and
smiling, which is so nice of her.
Once she didn’t want to listen a music, so we were talking the whole
process of music therapy. It is wonderful, but she remembers how she
got to the Apex centre and she told me story about her best friend and
her roommate in the apex centre, whom she was feeding and taking care
along with all of the workers of apex centre. It will stay
confidential as it is her experiences and her life, but just the fact
that she lets me know her life better builds a good connection and
trust between us.
I think our sessions are very helpful for both of us and helps fight
her disease, because she remembers me and sometimes remembers the
songs that we are listening too (the playlist is almost the same and
doesn’t change from session to session) and so it so fascinating when
she asks me to switch the song, because we already have listened to it
last week. I have wonderful, positive experiences about my time in
Apex centre. I am very glad I can have an impact on someone’s life
just by playing Elvis Presley’s songs. Can’t wait to continue our
sessions and really hope to help ease the disease of Ms.Cheng Tee.
Reflections:
https://drive.google.com/drive/search?q=music%20theraoy