KAHAANI:
–LO1– AWARENESS
Increased awareness of strengths and areas for growth
–LO3-INITIATIVE
Planning & initiating activities
–LO4– COMMITMENT
Showing perseverance, resilience
–LO5– COLLABORATION
Working together to achieve an outcome
Reflection 1-
It’s just the start of the Kahaani (a dance showcase to raise funds and awareness for the organizations supported by Kolkata GC)rehearsal process. I am beyond grateful to be a dance leader. I have been dancing for almost all my life, and Kahaani is an excellent platform for me to express my creativity in dancing and spread awareness on hidden issues of the world. Previously, I was involved in a similar activity like Kahaani, where instead of dancing to raise funds, we raised funds for underprivileged girls’ education via a girls-only basketball league. This year Kahani’s theme runs around shedding light on differently-abled people, and the Bollywood movie we’ve been allotted to highlight is ‘Margarita with a straw.’ The story centers on a girl with cerebral palsy who’s on the road to self-discovery. So the theme we made our dance around was women learning to love themselves, regardless of their “flaws” and reiterating that disability is NOT A FLAW. So our songs flow with women empowerment in mind. We will be starting with a song from Margarita about embracing ourselves, followed by ‘Ek ladki ko Dekha to Aisa Laga’ to celebrate pride and beauty in self-acceptance. Finally, we end with jugni – a song where women break free of everything!
Since I am stuck in New Delhi due to the Covid-19 pandemic, and my co-leader Renee Jaiswal is in Singapore, we are currently devising ways to teach our Kahaani group remotely, Although it seems complicated to manage a group of girls with social distancing and coordinate a google meet call, it is helping me discover newer, and more creative ways to be involved with my team and keep a track on their progress. At the end of the day, I got involved in this activity to spread awareness about disabilities and other issues in our community and embed my firm belief in feminism into the performance. So a minor setback like me not physically being there in Singapore won’t keep me away from my goal.
Reflection 2-
Kahaani rehearsals began last week, and the only thing I can say while sitting 3700 miles away is IT IS HARD, and it is a big challenge at the end of the day. The pandemic has taken a massive toll on the rehearsal process because we can only rehearse on specific days in designated rooms with a cap on how many people can participate. I remember Kahaani as an all-inclusive event allowing as many people from all ethnicities to celebrate my culture- the Indian culture. However, this year due to the new covid restrictions, we are only allowed a maximum of 20 dancers per group, leaving many people wanting to participate behind. Fortunately, until now, we are sailing smoothly with our little group of amazing dancers. Thanks to Renee and I creating our dance routine ahead of time, we can split the girls into different groups and teach them section by section. We were very strategic in our planning to ensure we could sail safely, if not smoothly, even if I’m not in person. I think the girls are showing us fantastic commitment to the activity by advocating for themselves and learning the routine well. Speaking for myself, although I am yet to enter Singapore, I think this is a commitment I have made and will fulfill my duties as a dance leader regardless of the circumstances. Even though I can’t do much sitting from India, I send videos of me doing the steps from time to time on the group chat, and Renee takes me on a google meet during practices. My group then sends recordings of each rehearsal on the chat to give improvement notes to each other. I think the process is going well right now, and hopefully, I can rehearse with them in person soon.
Reflection 3-
I made it into Singapore a few weeks ago, and Kahaani is exactly a month away. We all are very excited about the event, and the dance finally seems to be pulling itself together. As a leader, I am really enjoying this process of collaborating with other group members and taking their input to improvise new steps for our routine. The girls seem to be very flexible with recent changes, so it was easy for us to move formations and revamp our routine since I am here now, and the formations make a lot more sense than they did in the videos. With lost time in the past few months came the responsibility to make up for the practices we lost together. As a team, we decided to spend one to two days a week at school during our winter break and jumped past the challenges of remote learning. Our team as a whole showed great perseverance to improve the dance significantly and collaborate respectfully with each other, even if there were disagreements on certain things. Something that I’ve learned along the rehearsal process is that you can’t achieve perfection overnight. The fact that I wasn’t in Singapore took a massive blow on the team, and we worked together to make up for the time we lost. Even if it took long evenings to figure our routines out, the fact that everyone was willing to put effort into making this the best performance we could, paid off. As a dance leader, I am genuinely amazed at how far we have come, and I can’t wait to have our team perform on the final day!!
Reflection 4-
Kahaani got over last week, and it was one of the most heartbreaking yet beautiful experiences of my life. A few days prior to the show, I got hospitalized due to over-exhaustion, and some illnesses, which caused me to sit out of my own Kahaani dance. It was what I would phrase as the worst day of my life. We were put to the ultimate challenge of restructuring our dance 48 hours before the show if I wouldn’t be able to dance due to weakness. Ultimately, our preparation got executed as I had to take a back seat on the final day. But my journey isn’t all bad necessarily. It took me a week to process what I thought was incredibly unfair towards my team, but I am immensely proud of us. I am very proud of myself for showing determination towards dancing even when I was sick. I danced till I physically fell to the floor, and I prove to myself that I really am passionate about this event and I would never let my team or myself down.
Similarly, my team showed great strength and enthusiasm to learn a new restructured routine to pull the entire dance off without me in it- although they knew I would dance till my last breath and that I was standing in front of their eyes the whole time that they were being recorded on stage. So ultimately, this process has taught me not only what to do when it rains but what to do after the rain. We could have just canceled our dance and cried about it because I was ill. Instead, we accepted that the damage was done, and we decided to move on and overcome this new challenge of producing a restructured dance in under 48 hours. I think patience and resilience were the two most important skills we learned through this process. We stayed together and created a beautiful dance which was the highlight of our process. I have immense respect for all the dancers who participated in this event, especially my team, who learned to collaborate and overcame the hardest of challenges in high-pressure situations.